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I think every couple may go through a stage I name “early conflicts”, the stage, when both to some extents realize each other actually thinks and behaves differently and somehow generate conflicts. To conquer this stage, both of the couple have to sense a fact that we are not ourselves only; instead, we have a partner to take care of. In short, a successful relationship is based on mutual understanding & compromises, if any.

I have been stuck with this stage, with pains. I used to be a pampered and self-centered girl, thinking that I could have my own way at any costs. However my Darling happened to be a figure who resented this concept at any costs. We had very big fights at early days because of this big bifurcation.

I thought if you loved me, you should do whatever I wanted.

Darling thought if we loved each other, we had to make compromises when discrepancy occurred.

I made huge efforts to digest this concept and put it into practice. Without Darling’s patience, we wouldn’t have been through it.

Love is not only a strong emotion. It should include passions, care, trust, dependence, independence, privacy, respect, and two binding hearts.

This was the first lecture Darling has given me. We each other gave lectures and worked most out of them. The lecturing still continues.

JW Marriott Mumbai is a luxurious hotel inside Mumbai city. It’s near Juhu beach overlooking the Arabian sea.
http://marriott.com/property/propertypage/BOMJW

Source: JW website

It was a pure coincidence that we visited JW Marriott on Valentine’s Day (2006.02.14).
On 14th I was busy in properties checking, and throughout the day, only fatigue & lousiness, I couldn’t feel a slight romance. Megan (Darling’s sister) enthusiastically invited me to visit her home along with her cutie –Adi in the afternoon. Megan is really an amicable woman. She offered me some snacks and I saw Adi running here and there inside the house. It’s indeed a fun to have kind at home. Sometimes you feel like they are not human beings but animals.


After this wonderful family event, Darling proposed a night stroll in Juhu beach. Around Juhu beach, lots of boutiques & restaurants shined.Darling proposed to have some drinks and snacks. We walked along the street and passed a magnificent mansion. You cannot walk by without paying attentions to this mansion. It was too outstanding, out-dwarfing the neighborhood. Darling said it was JW Marriott, one of the most famous landmarks in Mumbai. “Is it?” I was so curious about this landmark. Why not go inside and check it properly?

A couple of security guards stood in the entrance, checking all entering cars. We walked by them, straightly went inside. Inside was so quiet compared with the crowds outside the wall. The interior was decorated as a western style garden. In the middle of the garden, one elegant fountain caught our eyes. We passed by fountain and walked along the stone stairs to the second floor, the main banquet entrance. Before entering, the security crew checked all guests’ handbags, and everyone had to pass the sensor gate exactly as what we see in the airport.

On Valentine’s Day, a party was on inside JW Marriott. Everyone we saw was so much dressed up; compared with them, our dressings seemed not to show respect to the party. Throughout the night, live bands, champagnes, BBQ seafood, exotic cuisines, along with an extraordinary dessert bar. We felt like we were joining a palace banquet. The most appreciating point of JW was its service. During the party, Darling asked a cup of hot water. To our surprise, the waiter brought us a tea pot of hot water along with 2 well-packed pure honeys. What an amazingly service!!

We left JW nearly midnight time. Whenever I thought of JW, all wonderful scenes of that night came to my mind in no time.